Joining our database is completely free. Simply complete the short questionnaire and you will be added to our database at no cost. Eligible singles must be over the age of 23, and physically be located within the US, UK or Canada.
If you would like to become a client, you’ll complete an in depth questionnaire, and choose between our 3 level of membership program. Once this step is completed, you’ll receive a call (at your convenience)from someone from our team. During the interview, we’ll go over likes, preferences, and different points of compatibility that we use during the matching process. We will then work to find curated referrals based on your interests and preferences. This enables you to receive profiles for consideration but is still a more passive approach to matchmaking. Matches are not guaranteed nor sent on a particular order. Rather, as we find mutual compatibility among the database, we’ll notify you.
Once both interested parties agree to be introduced, we will then provide contact information and formal introduction. As always, we check in with both parties during the initial "getting to know you" period. This allows us to communicate any feedback from the other party that they might not necessarily share with you (i.e. prevents ghosting) and we can take any matches that don't work out and further refine our process to send more specific matches your way. By having our team involved, even after introduction, we offer a level of accountability not readily available on dating apps.
The first step is to register for a free Selective Matchmaker membership. By Signing up for our mailing list, you’ll be first to learn all about the exciting updates and happenings in the Selective Matchmaker community!
Think of this as our “digital biodata”. By completing this simple questionnaire, we can establish if you meet the criteria for matchmaking services. This is also how to join our database of eligible singles, for free! If you want to move forward with receiving the benefit of any of our 3 levels of curated membership, move on to step 3.
The bottom line! After you make a choice of what level of participation you prefer,you’ll then receive a phone call for an interview that is the most important part of the matchmaking process. This is where we will get to know you better and take the time to go through your preferences and wants in a future partner and relationship.
In order to send and receive profiles, having a set of “true to you” photos is essential! If you’re in need of an update on your profile pics, no worries, we have a service that will take remote pictures of you for a quick refresh! Your photos will only be shared with potential matches for consideration, without any identifying components.
Expect a profile within 2 weeks. Initial referrals may not be a perfect fit but it helps refine your needs. Our database model allows for new clients to be added weekly. Don't worry if referrals slow down, a suitable match may be joining soon.
Friends & Family
A Friend or Family can register their loved one (Friend, Son/Daughter)
and tell us why they think their son or daughter is great. We'll send you profiles
of potential matches then you can play the role of a matchmaker. If you dont
like our selection, there's no embarrassment, your son or daughter wont even know.
Do something good for your single son/daughter.
| Matchmaker Experiences | Member | Client | Premium | VIP |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Matches personally screened | ||||
| Date planning with every intro | ||||
| Unlimited potential matches | ||||
| Guaranteed matching | ||||
| Background checks for matches | ||||
| A dedicated matchmaker | ||||
| Multiple search locations | ||||
| Expanded geographical search | ||||
| Personalized match recruiting | ||||
| Tailored to your schedule | ||||
| Financial background checks | ||||
| Date coaching and relationship work | ||||
| More extra options, let's talk |
